I always wanted a sister with whom I had a close relationship. Someone of whom I could never tire of talking to because our conversations always lead to deep reflection and soul-awakening. My real sisters and I never had that kind of relationship and I never found it in the few female friends that I had. That is until I met ‘The Brain” four years ago. Never before have I clicked so well with another woman. Never before I met someone who despite, much like myself, having grown up in a family that seemed to want nothing more than to destroy her spirit, survived and went on to be a strong, compassionate, and well-rounded individual.

When I first met her, I thought, “wow, what a WITCH with a capital ‘B’” because her presence was actually more demanding than my own. But lo and behold, we became friends. I learned very quickly that she and I were kindred spirits and together, we were a force to be reckoned with. She has talked me through some very tough times. She has been a true friend and I am grateful that I have met her.

Unfortunately, “The Brain” is leaving this country and moving to Ireland with her husband. They have to go- this country is not taking care of its own and so what other choice is there, right? But as much as I understand why she as to go, my heart breaks just a little more as each day brings us closer to her departure. We think about life in very much the same way. I know that when she is giving me advice, she is doing it out of love, respect, and honesty. I know that I will never find a friendship like that again. I am at a loss.… Continue reading →